Black Femdom UK And BDSM

For most, black femdom UK will be a lifestyle, so you might wonder if it is a term from the BDSM. Opinions on this will also differ. It does not matter, it is about the experience that you have together, whatever name it bears. Not everything has to be printed in a box.

Femdom

Femdom is a term from the BDSM world that initially only meant a woman who experienced sexual pleasure by dominating or harassing a "slavish" man (or woman), also called a sub. Sub stands for the English submissive; submissiveness.

Femdom is short for Female Dominant and is also known as Mistress, Dommette, Dominatrix, Godin and Supreme Female. There is a gradation of the amount of power that a black femdom UK has. Some are dominant only during sex, others live 24/7 as a goddess with a man (slave) who has to do everything she says. Femdom can therefore also apply to a way of life, there is no need for sex at all. This form is also called female Supremacy; the principle that women are stronger than men.

How did femdom arise?

The first femdoms operating in the West were mostly professionals, this was already in the nineteenth century.

Real femdoms did not offer sex, but only played the game with power and inflicting lashing pain. With this they wanted to distinguish themselves from "normal" prostitutes, who were forbidden. But there were also private houses that had kinky sex  in addition to flagellation , and in the bedroom a lot happened of course, which we know nothing about.

What is the difference between a femdom and a dominatrix?

Today, a distinction is made between women who call themselves Dominatrix and women who are femdom. A dominatrix is usually a professional, a prostitute, who pays you to be dominated and humiliated. But there are also women who enjoy the game with power, submission and pain, those are the real black femdom UK. Some femdoms do it for a small fee, as an amateur whore. These women usually receive at home and then have a complete room with attributes such as buoys, ropes, leather belts and whips. In some brothels this kind of sex is offered, then it is purely about the money and the dominatrix feels no sexual excitement with the game. That is a shame, because it is precisely both enjoying sex in this way that can improve your relationship. Psychologically speaking, it is the ultimate form of trust and intimacy.

Femdom in a sexual context

Femdom originated from the SM world and has for a long time only been linked to sexual acts that express submission, power and pain. Also called the "game". This is also called BDSM called. There are relatively few of them, so if you want to find a Mistress, you have to search well. The game can take various forms. It may be that the slave only has to lick her feet, kneel before her or perform (humiliating) tasks. Then the game is more mental. But there are also dommettes that tie the partner, often with leather and steel hand and ankle cuffs, or otherwise restrict the "sub" in his freedom of movement, such as by applying eye masks or toggles. The real "hard" femdom goes even further; here it is about beating whips, playing with knives and needles, nipple clamps, candle wax, and sex toys. This is also called extreme bondage .

Do you have a fantasy of being submissive to a femdom? Do you wonder if this is a wrong desire. You can view an informative (English) video above.

Femdom as a lifestyle

Many femdoms say that they have had their sexual preference from a very young age. For them it is not just a game, but part of their identity. That means that they also want to be the boss outside the bedroom and that their partner is submissive and slavish. Some subs may not even go to the toilet without permission.

That also means that she decides what she wants in terms of sex and when and that the submaline must obey it. The slave on the other hand is often denied sex, as punishment, and some wear a chastity belt. This can even be 24/7, the entire relationship is then dominated by power and submission.

How do I find a black femdom UK?

There are different ways to find black femdom UK. The first is the internet, where besides whores also normal femdoms advertise or make dates. Usually it's only about sex. Furthermore, most couples clubs  do have a BDSM evening or party where you find women in a leather corset and with high boots. You usually have to bring the toys yourself. Furthermore, you can of course confess your imagination to your partner, she may also find it something to try. You don't have to buy all kinds of attributes right away. It is also possible with normal rope, candle wax, ice cubes, clothes pegs and blindfolds and you do not need a corset. Yet especially leather clothing and attributes, such as handmade whips, is a way to make it all more exciting!